Matthew 22:1-14
God gets compared to a lot of things, most of them are poor comparisons. We like to twist God into being more like us rather than the other way around. So when the parable given by Jesus in Matthew is read, the immediate result might be to cringe in fear. Jesus began by saying that the kingdom of heaven might be compared to a king who held a wedding party for his son. The honored guests snubbed the invitation and didn’t show up. The king obviously was embarrassed and publicly shamed. So, in a vengeful rage, the king lashed out having those guests killed and their cities destroyed. He then invited any who would come and celebrate his son’s wedding. One person arrived inappropriately dressed unsure of the event. The king again lashed out and had the person bound and thrown into a place of utter darkness where there is wailing and gnashing of teeth. The king sounds like a petty, thin-skinned person of power of whom the world is very familiar. But is the kingdom of heaven really like this? Hardly.
Jesus modeled and taught what the kingdom of heaven was like for us to live. The kingdom of heaven is a place where justice is lived out between people. It is a place where truth is shared instead of lies. It is where the hard work of peace is preferred over war. It is where the dignity of the poor is lifted up while the haughty are brought down. The kingdom of heaven is a total contradiction to the behavior of the parable’s king. Comparisons aren’t always used to highlight similarities; they can also be used to highlight contradictions.
So how does the kingdom of heaven compare to a petty king? What they share in common is the reaction of the people to both. The wedding invitees made fun of the king’s invite and put personal business as a higher priority. Jesus has invited us to live out the ways of God’s kingdom and our responses aren’t all that different from the king’s invitees. The response of the people is how the two compare.
Jesus concluded the parable saying, “For many are called, but few are chosen.” The reality is that we are all invited to live lives as part of the kingdom of heaven, but few of us do. The few who do are welcomed as the blessed of God.
Peace